Hi.. For the past 10 years Ive tried to get ahead financiallly.. Everytime I save a couple hundred, something bad happens and I need touse that savings. Me and my husband are newly weds and we want to start a family. Problem is we cant because we have so much debt and dont want to raise a baby with no money. I recently filed bankruptcy due to losing my job and therefore lost my car too. I need help paying off bills(credit cards, medical bills, student loans, and buying a car) before we have kids or do anything. We dont make nearly enough waiting on tables and Im about to lose my head. We are both so depressed and never leave the house do to the fact we cant afford it. If there is anyone who could shed some light on my situation, I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you for your time.